Further
Learning

Note: not all materials will be only relevant to Muslims communities or in concordance with all Islamic teachings.

A Warning To The Muslim Community And A Call To End Complaisance Culture

“Blurred Lines: Women, “Celebrity” Shaykhs and Spiritual Abuse,” published online May 27, 2015.
Mushtaq, Samaiya. “On Power, Boundaries, and the Accountability of Imams.”

Ahmad, Sidrah. “I was pulled from sex ed class, did not learn about my body and was abused.” The Toronto Star. July 12, 2018.

Ansari, Zaynab Abdul-Razacq. “Drawing a Line in the Sand: Student-Teacher Relationships in the Digital Age,” published online May 30, 2015.

Daigle, Chelby. “Understanding Spiritual Abuse: an Interview with Salma Abugideiri,” Muslim Link, published online August 12, 2018.

Fadel, Mohammad. “Not all Marriages are Equal: Islamic Marriage, Temporary Marriage, Secret Marriage and Polygamous Marriage,” published online March 13, 2016.

In Shaykh’s Clothing – Introduction to Spiritual Abuse “
Karamah -Muslim Women Lawyers for Human Rights.What Do We Have to Hide? The Islamic Principle of “Satr” and Cultural Bias.” “

From the Roots of Trauma to the Flowering of Trauma-Informed Care. The Texas Muslim Women’s Foundation. 2020.

Responding With Rahma: Removing Roadblocks for Muslim Survivors of Sexual Violence

Things that Shatter: A Memoir Winner of the 2019 Daybreak Press Book Award for Best Non-fiction Biography/Memoir, Things That Shatter is a “superbly written… honest, gritty… page-turner will have you either nodding sagely as you recall your own experiences or making a map of what to avoid – but either way you’ll be in awe of Kaighla, her son, and their journey.”

Know My Name, a memoir Chanel Miller
Had it Coming, What’s Fair in the Age of #MeToo? Robyn Doolittle
Saints and Misfits
Women Talking
Women Talking

Believed (Michigan Public Radio – add TW)

Escaping NXIVM (CBC)

Association of Muslim Chaplains: Code of Conduct

Faith Institute Trust: Healthy Boundaries for Clergy, Spiritual Teachers, and Lay Leaders

The Family and Youth Institute. The FYI Spiritual Abuse Toolkit.

Peaceful Families Project, Imam & Chaplain Toolkit

Peaceful Families – Domestic Violence Survivors Toolkit.

The Threshold Society: “Ethics Agreement.”

Karamah -Muslim Women Lawyers for Human Rights:  “What Do We Have to Hide? The Islamic Principle of “Satr” and Cultural Bias.”

Shaikh, Ahmed.“The Ethics of Muslim Charisma: A Proposal for Leadership Standards,” published online October 18, 2017.
Henna Khawja

Mental Health Advisor

Henna Khawja is a Registered Social Worker with a special focus on the spectrum of gender based violence in Muslim communities. With over twelve years in the field, Henna currently works in sexual violence prevention and education with the University of Toronto, and is a Psychotherapist in private practice. Henna has worked with children, youth and adults in community, legal, child protection, corporate and university settings. Henna has also acted as the first Clinical Director for the Islamic Family and Social Services Association (IFSSA) in Edmonton, Alberta. Over the years, she has focused her work on supporting Survivors of trauma and violence along their healing journeys (including but not limited to gender based, spiritual, domestic, intimate partner, sexual, family, intergenerational, community violence). Henna has extensive experience working with Muslim & racialized communities in both Canada and the USA, as well as Pakistan and Zanzibar.

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